Pick a character I've written and I will give and explain the top five ideas/concepts/etc I keep in mind while writing that character that I believe are essential to accurately depicting them.
Never give a guy your phone number. Even your work phone number.
My life seems to be punctuated by the interest of guys who I am not romantically interested in. Considering this, it's probably just as well that the guys in whom I do take a romantic interest are never romantically interested in me.